"Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads.  Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates, so that your days and the days of your children may be in the land that the Lord swore to give your forefathers, as many as the days that the heavens are above the earth," says the Lord.    - Deuteronomy 11:18-21

 

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The ABCs for Parents
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Ask your child about the school day.
Begin your child's day with a nourishing breakfast.
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ongratulate you child for doing well.
Discuss homework with your child.
Encourage your child to read.
Find a quiet place for your child to study.
Give your child responsibility.
Hug your child to build self worth.
Include your child in making simple family decisions.
Join a library with your child.
Keep your child on a schedule that includes exercise and sleep.
Limit TV viewing by selecting programs with your child.
Make the time you spend with your child special.
Notice and discuss changes in your child's behavior.
Offer to help your child organize school papers.
Pray with and for your child.
Question the activities your child shares with friends.
Respect your child's right to have opinions different from yours.
Share an interest or a hobby with your child.
Take time to listen to your child.
Urge your child to say "NO!" to ungodly choices.
Visit places of interest with your child.
Work with your child to set up rules of behavior.
Xerox and save records or articles that benefit your child.
Yield results by encouraging your child to do better.
Zoom through these ABCs again and again!

 
 

Developing Reading Behaviors

 

There is no more

important activity

for preparing your child

to succeed as a reader

than reading aloud together.

 

It's no secret that activities at home are an important supplement to the classroom, but there's more to it than that. There are things that parents can give to children at home that classrooms cannot give. Children who are read to grow to love books. Over the years, these children will have good memories to treasure. They remember stories that made them laugh and stories that made them cry. They remember sharing these times with someone they love, and they anticipate with joy the time when they will be able to read for themselves.  Long before a child is able to read independently, they should be involved with books in a positive way.  Here are some things you can do at home to develop positive reading behaviors in your child:

1. Read to your child at least  10 minutes a day. You may want to establish a nightly routine of a bedtime story. By reading aloud to your child you increase their vocabulary and attention span while exposing them to quality literature they are unable to read on their own.

2. Talk with your child about stories you have read together. Ask questions about the plot, characters, or their favorite part.

3. Allow your child to "read" familiar stories to you. Accept his/her version of the story. This is a great pre-reading skill as children learn to use picture clues to develop meaning.

4. Get a public library card for your child. Make this a fun event and your child will love to go to the library for years to come! Give them a special bag, basket, or shelf to store their books on.

5. Allow your child to select the story he/she would like to hear, even if you have already read it 100 times. 

6.Select different types of books and a wide variety of reading materials for your child to choose from (e.g., magazines, newspapers, nursery rhymes, fairy tales, recipes).

7. Point out print in the environment (e.g., signs, cereal boxes, restaurants).

8. Books make great gifts! Select high quality books with detailed illustrations. Caldecott award winners are a good bet- look for the gold seal. If you are not sure, ask your child's teacher or the librarian at your local library.

9. Limit TV viewing.  The APA recommends no more than 10 hours per week for Kindergarten children.

10.  Invest in books on tape.  You can get these from the Library.  They are great for car trips!

11.  Get an Easy Reader Bible and read it with your child letting them say the words they know. It is important to plant God's word in their hearts while they are still young!

12.  Let your child see you reading!  He/She wants to grow up to be just like you!

Reading Links

The Read Aloud Handbook

Help Your Child Become a Reader

Reading Activities

Sight Word Games

Reading Stages

 

 

Developing Math Behaviors

Sort objects by shape, size, and color

Play "I spy" with shapes and numbers

Sort money by type and discuss name and values

Guess numbers between 1-10 by giving clues (i.e. I'm thinking of a number that comes after 6 but is before 8)

Let your child cook with you, this is a great time to point out fractions and time concepts

Make a pattern out of cereal or cracker pieces

Use household items to solve simple addition and subtraction problems (i.e. If you have 3 Barbie dolls and 3 Polly pockets, how many dolls do you have?

Math Links

More at-home activities

Fun family games

PBS Early Math

Math Book List

Stages of Math Development

 

 

Developing Writing Behaviors

Children will experiment with writing just like they do with reading. Just like a child's first words are approximations, so is their writing.  Being willing to accept scribbles and random letters as "writing" will help your child develop a positive view of writing and encourage them to pursue more meaningful representations.

1. Provide a variety of writing materials for your child and give them a special place to write.  You may want to put the following in a special basket or shelf:

pencils, markers, crayons, clip boards, a variety of paper, envelopes, stickers, etc.

2. Encourage your child be making comments to the content of the writing not just correctness.

3. Provide a special place to display your child's writing, such as the front of the refrigerator or a small bulletin board.

4. Give your child real contexts to write (thank you notes, lists, labels, notes, letters, etc.)

5. Teach your child how to sound out words by stretching them out.  Do not get into the habit of always spelling words for your child, or they will stop trying.

6. Write notes to your child and put them in special places (e.g., bathroom mirror, lunch box, under the pillow).

7. Share your writing (letters, cards, lists, etc.) with your child so they can see the purpose in writing.

Writing Links

Picture Explanations of the Writing Stages

Why Squiggles are Important

Scholastic Writing Tips

 

 



Tips for a Great Kindergarten Day

Children should wear clothes that they know how to get into and out of, so that they don’t have trouble when using the bathroom. Check the weather and dress your child in layers.  The temperature can change quickly in our SC climate.

Double knot shoelaces if your child does not know how to tie their shoes. Please make sure shoes are appropriate for the playground- no open toes, clogs, or slip-ons!

Make sure that your child arrives on time. School starts at 8:00

Put your child’s name on everything (sweaters, lunch boxes, etc.).

Return BEAR binders every day.

Library books should be returned on or before library day. They are checked out for one week.

Pray with your child in the morning or on the way to school.  It sets the tone for a great day!

Give them a big hug and kiss, and tell them that you can't wait to see them at the end of the day!

 


 

Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God."

Ephesians 5:1-2

Bible Character Qualities from A to Z

Attentiveness

Being Bold in Christ

Compassion

Dependence on God

Encouragement

Faithfulness

Goodness

Helpfulness

Integrity

Joy

Kindness

Love

Meekness

Neatness

Obedience

Perseverance

Quick to Forgive

Respect

Self-Control

Truthfulness

Understanding

Victory in Jesus

Well Mannered

eXcellence

Yielding to God

Zeal for God

 

 

 

 

Links:

10 Signs of Good Kindergarten Classroom

Printable Lunch Box Notes

Discovery School

Games to Make

Mom Sense

 

Focus on the Family

 

Expectations of 3, 4, and 5s

 

Snack Ideas (to make at home or bring in to share)